Sometimes I wonder what my Father was thinking when he made MALE…when He decided to make more than one of them. I’m not bashing that sex because I’ve tried to raise two of those species. Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing like a God-fearing, nice looking, well-dressed intelligent man. But, I declare once they fall in love with a woman all sense of logic leaves their mind.
I can’t speak for all males, only the ones that have crossed my path over the years. DISCLAIMER: I AM NOT REFERRING TO MY HUSBAND (o_0). If this isn’t describing any of the men that are currently in your life, then my hat is being tipped for your blessing. However, if you are saying you’ve never met a man as such, then you might be telling a little white one. (Smile)
Once a man falls in love, he forgets how to dress himself on a daily basis. I understand if you need to occasionally ask how something vibes with another piece of clothing. But, every time you pick up a shirt, you don’t have to ask if it needs ironing. If I can see the wrinkles across the room, I know you see them while holding it in your hand.
Who chose your food before you got in a committed relationship? I can’t tell you what you are going to eat or what you have a taste for. If I tell you I’m not cooking, then you are pretty much on your own all the way around.
While on my soapbox, allow me to touch on the subject of sex. Yes, I am going there. Remember, I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT MY HUSBAND. Unfortunately, I didn’t live my life as God instructed. Therefore, there was sex with other partners back in the days. Plus, you see it everywhere you look. It’s in the movie theaters, on the television and in things you read.
Even during sex most men don’t think logically. Why do they have to keep talking? Don’t get me wrong, no one wants silence the entire time. A little conversation for him and some quiet time for me would be fair. Another pet peeve of mine-thinking I want to answer so many questions? And why can’t they give you time to answer one before they ask another? And, two of the stupidest question are, “Whose is this?” and “Is this mine?” Correct me if I am wrong, but I thought THAT WAS ESTABLISHED WHEN WE DECIDED TO BE IN A COMMITTTED RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER. How would you handle it if I answered with, “It’s my personal trainer’s”? Use your head!
Now, back to your daily routine.
In all things pray and seek the Lord. Allow Him to help you make decisions-not Kooley! These are just my thoughts, opinion and experiences.
